If you are intelligent, you will be praised – if you are stupid, people will look down on you.
People with strong self-esteem do not focus on the external reasons that may have caused the undesired result but rather spend their energy thinking of ways to meet the outcome that they want. They don’t put themselves down for making a mistake, they just learn from the experience and move on.
Growth mindset people, like others, enjoy their successes, which they see as the outcome of their strategies, effort and hard work. They are thus, far more often successful in any of their undertakings and creative in overcoming their failures.
It is better to be an ordinary person working for a living than to play the part of a great person but go hungry.